Respect tradition where it is good , but never pay lip-service to dead mores or religious customs. Be sensitive to the minds of all with whom you have to do and realise that their ideas and commitments represent their deepest thoughts and loyalties . As you converse with others pray that Our Holy Spirit guide the exchanges of thoughts and lead all taking part into the light of truth and into deeper understanding of it . Never allow your mind to close , but pray Our Holy Spirit filters all that enters it.